8 Romantic Dating Tips - Romances.com (next page)
both - Get some new clothes
gets you more ready for the dating scene than some new
digs. Hey, you deserve it. Go spend some of that money
and get a new wardrobe. You will be glad you did. New
clothes can help you build your confidence as a new person
out on the dating scene. The idea of dating is to turn
over a new leaf - so in that spirit, include your wardrobe.
her - Avoid substance abusers
is very difficult to have sustained a relationship with
a pot smoker - they will be too laid back and always late.
That is the best case scenario - hard core drug users
might even be delusional, suicidal and violent. Avoid
them at all costs. If you have a drug problem, don't seek
out a drug partner when dating. You will just make both
of you more miserable and tragic. Kick the habit, get
some help and then get on with your dating life.
him - Don't totally
lie on your online profile
is more frustrating to a gal than to meet someone online
that has totally lied about what they look like and what
they do. You may think they liked you online, so why not
now? Some of you may have pretended to be someone you're
not and then wondered why they wouldn't return your calls/emails
after meeting you in person. The shocking truth is that
it is because you lied on your online profile. Don't lie.
Be honest and truthful and though it may make online dating
more difficult initially - it will make it easier once
you actually meet.
both - Make some dating "goals"
don't want to take the fun out of dating, but it does
help to know what you really want. Do you want to be married
in two years? Do you want to have kids? Or, do you simply
want a "friends with benefits" type of deal?
Hey, you need to know so you know what to look for.
him - Prepare for failures
when you think it went well, she tells you that you are
the biggest asshole she has ever met. Don't despair. Dating
is not easy, though it can and should be fun and rewarding.
However, along the way, you will likely get some bogus
numbers or get flat out dissed in some ways that might
hurt. You just have to keep moving along. You will strike
out a few times, but it will all be forgotten when you
finally hit the walk off homer.
both - Be realistic and look for complimentary partners
try to date someone clearly out of your league. Well,
give it shot if you must, but your best chances for true
happiness lie not with someone exactly like you or totally
different, but rather complimentary. In other words, if
you are talkative and they are quiet but you both love
music - you may find harmony as you will both compliment
each other. If you are a bagger at a grocery store and
they are a stock broker, ain't gonna work.
both - Join clubs, societies, and gyms
increase your dating chances, join as many clubs, groups
and gyms as you can. The more you get out, the more you
will increase your odds of finding a dating partner that
is complimentary to your needs. Plus, you just may learn
a thing or do and kill two birds with one stone by volunteering
to make a contribution while helping your dating chances,
her - Don't give it away to soon
is always the danger of peaking too soon, so save sex
for special occasions when it is warranted and the right
time. Don't let a night get away from you for a quick
hook up, just because it seemed like the thing to do in
the spirit of the moment. All too often this will kill
the relationship and make dating awkward in the future.
Save it for later, if you want this dating to go the distance
and turn into something greater than a hook up.
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